Life giving leaders have the
ability to give leadership away.
Only a Christ confident life giving person can enthusiastically empower
others to ‘take their’ job. It’s so counter intuitive when most people are
trying to “get all they can, can all they get, sit on the lid and poison the
rest”. For someone to
enthusiastically help others get a head at what seems like their own expense,
well it’s just not normal. But life-giving Christ followers are not “normal”.
We are to be like Christ and give our lives for others.
It’s called being a second mile
Christ follower (Luke 6:29).
Anyone can be a one-mile advocate. This is easy because it doesn’t cost
anything. Not really!
Giving others
permission to fail your expense, well… that’s rare. The second mile Christ followers are not hard to find,
they standout in any organization, like my friend Steve. Too many years ago, in
my twenties, Steve was a vice president at a Bank where I worked. On the first
day I went to work for Steve he said to me, “Alex, there is nothing that you
can mess up that I cannot fix. So have fun and enjoy the job.” I cannot tell
you how empowering that was. He took total responsibility for my development
and potentially at his expense.
“When we honestly
ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find
that it is those who…have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds
with a warm and tender hand.” ~Henry Nouwen
Only life-giving
leaders will truly empower others at that level. These leaders are not so
concerned about their own well being that they are easily intimidated or
fearful of the actions of the ones they are empowering. Those who have the courage to really do
this, create great leadership legacies that out live them.
One more thing, as
we work ourselves out of a job by empowering others, we soon find ourselves
with more opportunity than ever. Steve was the fastest promoted Vice President
in the banks history. Funny how
that happens.
Be Life Giving!
Alex Anderson
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